Today I'm Thankful For...

Family and friends who go out of their way to be loving and supportive. Not that I have ever forgotten, but I was again reminded over the weekend that I have a truly superb group of family and friends surrounding me at all times. Some live far away, others are close by, but all are irreplaceable, and I'm very fortunate to have them all.

In addition to two very loving parents who are always ready with a pep talk or a swift kick in the ass (whichever I need more at any given time), I am blessed with a sister to whom I've become quite close and who I can consider one of my dearest friends. As my maid of honor for the upcoming wedding, she has been instrumental in helping with all the wedding plans (and for those who have never planned a wedding, trust that there are a LOT of plans). This past weekend she truly outdid herself by planning a fabulous bachelorette party in my honor. Complete with festive drinks, inappropriate edibles, lodging, games, gifts, and all my girls, it was a very welcome respite in an otherwise crappy week.

It was evident how much care, love, and effort went into the party, and for her I'm truly grateful. In addition, I was excited that so many of my closest friends made the effort to attend. From St. Louis, Chicago, Louisville, Lafayette, Bloomington, and Indy, they all made the event special by gathering and sharing the fun with me. So I'm thankful for them, too, because they keep me grounded in the knowledge that I always have someone to lean on should the need arise. I can only hope to provide the same comfort and support in return someday.

There are others who touch my life regularly as well (fiance, grandparents, godparents, in-laws), and they all have a special place and function in my microcosm of existence. I might have my share of struggles, both physical and psychological, these days, but I am never alone, and for that I'm thankful.